Man Of The House

Small boy playing on the sounds of time,
Never expected the rain to shower on our dreams,
Watched the drama unfold like gifts from boxes,
A little boy saw his family get homeless,
I got lost when I was young then hunger gave me comfort.

I endured all the pains and shame from strangers,
Dad told us that some days will be rainy,
But this storm might blow us all away,
I saw love turn hate before the sun sets at dawn,
This life we live is strange but trust it to be sane.

Mom cried and said “son you have this family on your back”,
Then I knew the journey of greatness began from there,
They closed the casket on kanyin my heart broke into pieces,
I wrote this piece crying like it happened yesterday,
I went on my knees and asked God what's my purpose,
He replied with rainbows and the sun kept shining.

10 Random Facts That Will Blow Your Minds

 

 A little knowledge goes a long way, especially when it's about something as compounded as sex. From being a taboo to a reproducture affair now a desired act, sex can mean alot to different people and surprisingly animals too!! Humans sexual intercourse is both different from the same as that of animals. Let's give you some amazing sex facts and animal facts that will get your minds blasted.

1)Sex Was Found To Induce Improved Sleep.
 Do you feel relaxed after busting a nut? Yes Sex helps you relax your nerves and it is a good one. After sex , Orgasm releases Prolactin,the hormone responsible for sleepiness and relaxation.

2)Having Sex Frequently Increases The Quality Of A Man's Sperm.
In increases fertility and reduces the chances of DNA damage.A study was proven that men who ejaculate or have sex daily produce higher quality semen that those who don't. This might be helpful for couple's trying to conceive.

3)Most Women Are Not Able To Climax By Vaginal Intercourse Alone.
Most partners don't know about this,instead of Vaginal Intercourse alone,they also need clitoral stimulation to reach the big O,only 28% of women reported reaching Orgasm,quite a far reach for that 75% of men who did.

4)Women Whose Vagina Have Direct Exposure To Semen Turn Out Less Prone To Depression.
Lol are you surprised? Raw sex yes! It means having sex without a condom semen has mood altering hormones which the female body absorbs through the Vagina.

5)It Is Very Possible To Reach Orgasm While Sleeping.
Despite the absence of physical stimulation,female genitals can experience blood flow through a sensual dream. It can increase as much during actual intercourse and the flow boost could cause Orgasm. Some women reach the big O while having erotic dreams.

6) Chimpanzees Have Spined Penises.
While it can ultumultim improve stimulation,it may also end up damaging female during coitus.

7)An Elephant Penis Can Be Heavy As 30kg During An Erection.
No long talk, wrongly touching an elephant penis may literally have you fucked around and knocked over.

8)When Sexually Frustrated,A Dolphin Is Not As Cute And Cuddly As It Seems.
 Intelligent beings that they are, dolphins are known to practise gang rape,murder on their own youngs,kill porpoises and even ho as far as sexually assaulting humans.

9)Sperm Can Last Up To 5 Years Inside A Female Snake.
Even when she mates with various males,the female can control which sperm she will use in fertilizing her eggs.

10) Lubricants are the top seller among all sex toys.
Contrary to what you might think,these liquids beat both vibrators and dildos to the record.

LOVE IS NOT FED UP

“Love doesn't make the world go round, Love is what makes the trip worth while”.

 Love is composed of a single body inhabiting two different souls. Like the saying “It takes two to tango”, so not replying his/her texts or ghosting on your partner isn't the best way to grow love.
   In our present day generation, many of us idealize love, we imagine a soft pleasurable feeling of emotions and care without actually doing the work. Some see it as as a lofty cure for all of life's problem. As we keep up with this,we underestimate the power of love and begin to swerve into lust and the end result is our relationships begins to suffer and pay the price of our negligence.
Believing we all need love is not enough to play the cards to win, we most likely forget the core values such as honesty, commitments, self care,trust towards the ones we genuinely love.

Someone once said;

 “If love solves everything,then why bother with the other stuff?yes all the unnecessary things”.

 We stay worried over alot we shouldn't bug about in our relationships due to alot of things eg, past occurrences, third parties, unwanted pressure, falling in love out of pity etc and it gradually takes our minds off the good things and we focus more on the end without beginning the trip.

Love is like alcohol, it intoxicates you at first on the sweet start and clears off when you wake in the morning.

BITTER SWEET TRUTHS ABOUT LOVE.
  No matter how much we eat on our fantasies and idealize our love stories. There are some hard truths I'd be talking about today.

1) Healing Doesn't Mean Forgetting.
   It's funny how couple's after a week of breakup come online to fight for peace and happiness or claim to heal and have forgotten about their pasts. That's a big lie and for you to heal, you've to admit pain and even after this phase, forgetting what hurt you might be difficult to brush under the rug.

2) Love Does Not Equal Compatibility.
  Falling in love is one of the best feeling in the world but that doesn't mean whoever you're in love with must feel that same way towards you or be good to you over the long term. It's possible to fall in love with someone who doesn't treat us well and then we start thinking we are not enough for him/her. When I think about the sad relationship stories we see around today, I go asking questions and it's always rhetorical.

NB: When in search of your missing piece, you must use your mind and not your heart and if you end up with your heart, you might just have a bad time.


3) Closure isn't real.
  You can mourn the loss of someone you lose. But you can never truly get over it because when you lose someone,a part of you is lost with them. Closure is a sad effort by you to regain that part of you that is lost. It can be hurtful, mean and regressive, your past will always be your past so move on and appreciate the past for whatever it taught you.

4) Don't ever beg for someone to love you.

5) Be careful who you give your heart to.

6) People will disappoint you again and again.

7) It is not uncruel to block your Ex.

8) There will be people in your life that you will never be able to forget or stop loving them.

9) Always know when to use the door.

PRESS RELEASE FOR VICE CITY VIBES (SSCRCY).

Following his previous release “11:11” which grossed over 70,000 streams and counting, Edge is back with a new single titled “Vice City Vibes (S.S.C.R.C.Y)”. The release of this single indicates he does not intend to slow down anytime soon. Produced by Flowers in Narnia and Ramoon, “Vice City Vibes” is a two-part song of modern day 80’s disco mixed with hip-hop vocals and Afro-fusion. Edge showcases his versatility and genre blending skills once again using his distinct rhythmic vocals. “Vice City Vibes” pays an ode to his childhood influence GTA Vice City, hence the name, and as you listen you'll find that he leaves sonic traces of his Nigerian roots in the song.

The new release has been long awaited by his fans after previewing it last summer on Vancouver’s The100collective.
When asked about the single, Edge said this song marks a crucial part of his creative journey, as he feels the song captures his growth in music. "Its taken me a while to find my sound, but this song is it! I feel the most comfortable and confident I've ever been in creating music, I know people are really going to love this vibe." He says his fans can expect more of his sound going in this melodic direction.

Notable Press

"Edge takes inspiration from Rap giants such as Travis Scott and Don Toliver to create a catchy and prominent flow, that effortlessly rides the track. The BC Artist creates a colorful sonic landscape riddled with tasteful ad-libs and melodic brilliance." - 

Elevator Mag

"I’ve seen him perform countless times and honestly I’ve always loved his sets. Edge had explosiveness which was very contagious and with his charisma commanded the room." - FortheCultureCanada

"Influenced by everything from his Nigerian roots to modern pop, reggae and rap of all eras (most noticeably Tyler the Creator), Edge is carving out his place quickly within the world of hip-hop by creating a unique sound all his own that is laced with details of his experiences thus far." - Hidden Beats

Accolades

70,000 streams and counting on both 1st and 2nd single "Hana Orches" and "11:11".

Top 3 Music Video for the 2017 notTV competition.

Over 130 playlists additions with only 2 singles out on Spotify since 2018.

Garnered airplay on CBC radio and has entered their regular rotation for both singles.

Opened and shared stage with notable international and Canadian Acts including: Amine, Petit Biscuit, 88glam, Adamn Killa, Ill Chris, Golden BSP, Teon Gibbs, & BBNO$.

Received acclaim from local and international publications and media outlets including: Elevator Mag, FortheCultureCanada, Hidden Beats, Kelowna Capital News

STREAM VIBE CITY VIBES

PRESS RELEASE FOR KAYLU'S ON CHECK.

    After the release of his debut project Millennium Boy, Kaylu celebrates his journey and rise in the music industry in his new rap single titled 'On Check'. With a catchy hook, sizzling flows and a hard slapping beat, the young and talented rapper has proven to be a force to reckon with in the hip hop game and is definitely one to watch out for in the near future.

On Check was written and performed by Kaylu, Produced by Ohjay Soundz and Engineered by Kronik.

STREAM ON CHECK HERE

MEET IHCEGO.

   Ogechi Ihcego’s Iteogu influx of different Music, into the industry’s space, has dared to be different and extreme in uniqueness. The Nigerian Singer and Lyricist has been kicking it in the music industry from 2016 with a first original single “Blurry Days”. The single was a soulful sound prophesying hope and a promise of better days.

A university graduate of accounting; ihcego recently jump started her career in July 2019 with a five track EP called “Bare”. It was one of distinct story telling songs, expressing sides of encouragement for strength and persistence, some of love and one of wittiness.The freshness of sound from ihcego is evident on her Ep and new releases that have followed in 2020.

The singer’s prowess spreads across great songwriting and passion filled deliveries with vocal prowess. Ihcego is partly influenced by renowned Nigerian musician Asa and paints her genre as ‘Different’ whilst labeling her brand as a hub of versatility. 

   

OUT OF LOVE

The heart is fragile yet strong,
Enduring the good and bad that enters,
The land is angry over my promises,
That fell on Rocky soil with no fruits,
To grow or harvest in due seasons.

You ever woken up at midnight to cry,
Over the demons that torment your sleep,
With all it's memories and lust,
My heart still feels lonely and numb,
With anger and hate from broken trusts.

But it's time to cross the line,
Coming to reality that hate breeds evil,
Life is evil enough not to have a good heart,
The right one will come and never look back,
Love reigns in the city of hate.

MEET BZR; THE JOURNEY IS JUST STARTING LETS RIDE.

Chibuzor “BZR” Iloka is the man of the underdog scene and his unique Jamaican patua vibe keeps you trapped in his webs of melodies. He came over to the HQ and we spoke at length about his rise and fall in his little time spent in the game, keeping up with challenges and his new song with featuring 1nda. I've known the Rasta man for some years and I have never deep in his feelings as mixed emotions clouded the room as he answers the questions with all sincerity in heart while we exchange blunts with the gang.

Your Identity is hidden to many, tell them who “BZR” is?

BZR is actually pronounced as buzzor but anyhow you wanna call it is fine by me. I’m a musician. I make music for the bad boys and bad bitches,simply put. My lyrics are an extension of me. Anything you hear is probably very true. sometimes I exaggerate but that’s left to fans to decipher.

When did you start putting out songs?

I started putting out music August 2019.

So let's talk about real deep challenges you have experienced in this journey?

Took this music seriously in 2016; fresh of secondary school. Since then it’s been a hell of ride. My first challenge was in 2016. I had songs written but I couldn’t record because there was no money for studio session and my folks didn’t like the idea of me doing music they where all about school,so getting money from them for studio sesh was impossible,but God came through mid 2017. 1nda’s elder brother,EOD, finally got his setup at home,that was the day everything changed. Somehow God did it for me and my studio sesh problem was fixed. Since then I’ve had hurdles to cross like mastering recording techniques,vocal trainings,lyrics and delivery and whole lotta other shit too long to talk about. It’s not been easy yunno but I still have a long way to go.

Family is everything, are they supportive of this musical journey?

Yeah,kind of. My siblings have always been rocking w me. Mom is also in support but my dad is skeptical about the process, yunno based on the whole vintage igbo dad vibe. You know how is, but I’m doing it anyway,I don’t give a fuck.

you just played me your new song you premiering in a few hours, how do you feel about this one?

Yeah,the name of the song is “one thing”ft my bro 1nda and It’s a very special record. I’m hoping the gang will fuck with this when it drops. hopefully they do but if that's not possible we move yeah.

I love the spirit bro... You more of a bad nigga vibe, is there a soft side of bzr? Are you in love!

Well yeah,there’s a soft side. You’ll be seeing that side in the future but for now it’s the hard guy side. And no I’m not in love.

Lol that's something I'd watch out for, last words for your fans and believers?

I’m nothing without y’all for real. The journey is just starting I hope y’all will rock with me till the end.

STREAM ONE THING FT 1NDA

WHY GIRLS FAKE ORGASM

    In today's society, a lot of people have conversations about their sexual desires, fantasies and reaching the peak of sexual excitement is the goal to calm your nerves and urges.The Orgasm is regarded as the peak of sexual pleasure. it is a strong feeling of physical pleasure or sensation which involves an accumulated discharge of erotic tension. Talking more on orgasm, let's get familiar with the fact,types and causes before we discover why some ladies fake it.

    Facts On Orgasm.
- Orgasm don't only occur during sexual stimulations.
- People of all genders can experience orgasm disorders.
- Orgasm have potential health benefits due to hormones and other body chemicals.
- Trans people are able to orgasm after gender surgery.

NB:Men need to have orgasm to release sperm but women do not need to orgasm to ovulate or become pregnant.

Orgasm persist because they have a psychological function of reproduction. it feels good and also encourages women to have more sex. It takes a lot of practice and knowledge to make your girl get to the peak of her desires or watch her fake it till you're no more.
   Faking of Orgasm occurs when a person pretends to have an orgasm without actually experiencing one. Truth be told, women fake orgasms more frequently than men. At least 30% of women fake orgasms everytime they have sex,women tend to achieve orgasm during intercourse less than men because most women require clitoral stimulation to achieve orgasm. There are sexual positions that don't provide access to the clitoris, which makes orgasm difficult to happen. Faking orgasm can be based of many factors;

- To please your partners
- To hurry up and get done
- Not to hurt feelings/emotions
- Boredom
- Tiredness/Not in the mood
- Bad sex

 Weird but true,about 20% of men fake orgasm during intercourse such as their partners want them to orgasm but they are can't due to tiredness from a bad sex,pleasing their partners or avoiding negative consequences. A study of orgasm was found and proven that women who fake orgasms were more likely to neglect their partners to flirt and have intercourse with men who are not their partners.

The Best Sex Position To Orgasm

  80% of people require clitoral stimulation to have an orgasm but nearly not many are actually focusing on the clitoris during sex. The clitoris is shaped like a wishbone,with your two legs that go down and surround the vaginal opening. Stimulating the clitoris makes the G-spot more pronounced and easier to locate. This position as a result may just be the best for orgasm.

- Missionary.
- Doggy style.
- Cow girl.
- Parting the sea.

Tips for clitoral hood stimulation
- Use lube.
- Let your fingers do the walking.
- Try the “hand job” technique.
- Use a sex toy.
- Find the right position.
- Consider the “riding high” position.

I BELIEVE THE WORLD WILL HEAR MY SOUND SOON - JOYBOYMT

  The industry has birthed alot of talents during this pandemic and it's safe to say the future is in good hands. Today we'd be talking with Fuji Fusion Artiste Singer, Song writer and entertainer, “Joyboymt” who spok about his previous single “RACE”,life as a Fuji artiste and his growth in the game.


Tell us about yourself?

 My name is Oguntoyinbo Ayodeji Uthman, i was born and brought up in Lagos state Nigeria .
I’m a singer, songwriter, entertainer, and Fuji fusion artist.

How did you discover the art of making music?

I discovered the art of making music at the age of 14  right from college. I got inspired by legends such as Sunny Ade, King Wasiu Ayinde, Barrister, Ebenezer Obey. The use of live instruments in their music was also a major attraction for me. When you hear that talking drum,bass guitar and saxophone your body must respond. This is something I hope to infuse into my music as time goes on.

How would you describe the music that you typically create?
It’s easy to describe my music even though it’s rare to see artists that currently do this genre in the Industry . You might hear similarities at times cause my sound is a fusion of different sounds but I want people to feel the 'Fuji' as the base whenever I release music. The legends of traditional sound are a big inspiration to me and I want to take it to the next level. You'd hear Afrobeat, Afro pop and any other sound honestly with my style and effizi we'll birth Fuji fusion. This is also me embracing the musical heritage of my roots cause I’m from the Yoruba land.

How do you feel the Internet has impacted the music business?

The Internet has made an impact on almost every aspect of music. In short, the Internet has changed the music industry in both positive and negative ways.A more recent development has been the emergence of Internet radio and digital streaming platforms. The internet makes it easier for your music to be heard, and I think it is an important tool especially for the independent artiste. You're trying to sell a product to your audience and the internet is the new marketplace.

You released Race some weeks ago, what birthed and motivated that release?

'Race' is about life's puzzles and challenges. Whoever you are, the only way to win your race is to keep your head up when you’re going through some battles in your life. When people leave you in your time of need. Never lose hope and keep pushing. 'Race' is my story, and I want to share it with the world.

What's your creative process?

My creative process involves making new and original connections between old ideas and new ideas in the music industry

As a Fuji Fusion artiste in Nigeria it's a rare genre in this industry, let's talk about the challenges and the wins?

The main challenge of this style is getting  people to listen(it's not something the new generation is used to and I'm here to change what we're used to) With time I believe the world will hear my sound and we're all really just trying to push the culture further. Get ready for Fuji-fusion at it's best.

What's next for you?

I’ll be releasing some new projects probably with video shoot this year but I can’t disclose the date the time but I know my fans are ready anytime,  any day , anywhere for me whenever I drop gbedu so like said gets ready for FUJI-FUSION AT ITS BEST .

DONT BREAK.

6: 36PM at the bus station,
Happiness buried my confusion in fear,
No bus leaving to my destination,
My heart knocked on my feet and walked away,
Her words were coming alive like Lazarus.

I embraced courage and made a walk towards the line,
"No bus to Umuahia till next week" said an old man,
I felt tears buried in my eyes but dont lose faith,
Made questions only my mind could answer,
"Will I make it home?","what if I dont see mama again"?.

Said the lords prayer and drank Insha Allah for lunch,
The creator's plan is of good and not evil,
I was saved by the curiosity of my guardian angel,
Ran like a dog to grab my bone on the next coach.

Laughter rose again with smiles setting for dawn,
I kept saying prayers to ease my mind,
But this warfare was for wizards not kids,
We started our journey with her words playing in my head.

Spent hours on this dark road,
My chest will never beat this way for any mortal,
Why will I take my own life before thy clock ticks?
Terror arose goosebumps before the driver shouted for help.

Cattles roaming with no guide at 9:23PM,
Flashbacks of the previous day kicked in,
The smiles, emotions and trust all gone,
Gunshots like rain fell heavy on my bus.

If the hunter says everything in his pursuit of games,
The gods will never respect his gun or skills,
Made sarcrifies with no regrets in soul and body,
Life is a risk so as the ones who claim to hold you.

Official Press Release For Narvana's Tobeh Et Narvana EP

Nigerian based Singer-Songwriter, Narvana drops an EP titled "Tobeh et. Narvana".

The project was produced in its entirety by the exceptional producer, Davic and it is an eclectic blend of sensations ranging from the happy and bouncy "Laye" encouraging you to never give up to the melancholic and thoughtful "Worries" which drags the listener through the disquieted thoughts of the artiste. Hence the title to showcase the varied states of mind the artistes regularly finds in himself.

"Tobeh et. Narvana" is a solid output with sharp songwriting, catchy lyrics and contagious melody matched with sublime production.

Check out Narvanamusic on all social platforms. 

Listen to Tobeh et Narvana EP

REASONS WHY YOU SHOULD LET YOURSELF GROW.

      Growth to anyone is relative, growth to me can be finally learning how to arrange my room but to you it can be learning how to let go of toxic people. Growth no matter how strenuous is always for the better, just like time, with growth there is no going back.
   Growth is like rain drops trying to feel a stream, vessel is still the same, the water might be sweeter but its capacity is reached it runs over. When growth visits you, old skins have to find their way back to earth.

THE REASON WHY YOU SHOULD LET YOURELF GROW

 “started from the bottom, now we are here”- Drake

I grew up watching Mo Abudu on Moments with MO.
I remember always being excited to watch her show, Lord knows I didn’t understand half of the things she was saying, but I saw a woman who was able to make her guests feel at home and ask well-thought-out questions. Now she is the owner of EBONY LIFE TV. 
        Everyone you aspire to become started from somewhere. No one jumped into the shoes they wear now, they had to grow into them.
            Wearing oversized clothing as kids is a tradition in every African household, because you were supposed to grow into it. This shows that growth is expected, at least physically but the mental aspect is where the real work is.

An African mother looking at you when you say "the cloth is too big for you".

               
                  WITH GROWING COMES PAINS.
      Growing up is very lonely, it’s a personal journey that comes with a lot of ups and down. You see yourself changing your views and perspective on various issues, you start to loose and gain friends, your body is changing, your family and friends are changing too and it seems like your perfect little world is crumbling before you. I remember the first time I asked a friend of mine to do something for me and she said NO. I was so pissed, but I had to learn that people are going to tell you no and it’s okay.
    Growing up comes with a lot of emotional pains, especially from relationships. Imagine a Danfo bus, people come in and drop off at their bus stops but the bus driver doesn’t drop off with them. He is always constant, the number of people coming in and dropping of will change but he won’t.
         Everyone has a role to play in your life and when they are done with their scene, it is okay for them to take a bow. A hard nut to chew but it is inevitable.
        Growth also comes with the fear of not becoming, well if you don’t try then it’s the same as failing. Trying and failing comes with learning, it arms with experience that you don’t read about in books. It might seem safer to be stuck in the same phase, but ask yourself, is this all I can be?
     Growing also comes with acceptance. To improve yourself must accept who you are at this time, so you be better. You must be patient with yourself, time will surely write your progress story. Mine is currently in the nineteenth chapter, and ink never finish.