Man Of The House

Small boy playing on the sounds of time,
Never expected the rain to shower on our dreams,
Watched the drama unfold like gifts from boxes,
A little boy saw his family get homeless,
I got lost when I was young then hunger gave me comfort.

I endured all the pains and shame from strangers,
Dad told us that some days will be rainy,
But this storm might blow us all away,
I saw love turn hate before the sun sets at dawn,
This life we live is strange but trust it to be sane.

Mom cried and said “son you have this family on your back”,
Then I knew the journey of greatness began from there,
They closed the casket on kanyin my heart broke into pieces,
I wrote this piece crying like it happened yesterday,
I went on my knees and asked God what's my purpose,
He replied with rainbows and the sun kept shining.

10 Random Facts That Will Blow Your Minds

 

 A little knowledge goes a long way, especially when it's about something as compounded as sex. From being a taboo to a reproducture affair now a desired act, sex can mean alot to different people and surprisingly animals too!! Humans sexual intercourse is both different from the same as that of animals. Let's give you some amazing sex facts and animal facts that will get your minds blasted.

1)Sex Was Found To Induce Improved Sleep.
 Do you feel relaxed after busting a nut? Yes Sex helps you relax your nerves and it is a good one. After sex , Orgasm releases Prolactin,the hormone responsible for sleepiness and relaxation.

2)Having Sex Frequently Increases The Quality Of A Man's Sperm.
In increases fertility and reduces the chances of DNA damage.A study was proven that men who ejaculate or have sex daily produce higher quality semen that those who don't. This might be helpful for couple's trying to conceive.

3)Most Women Are Not Able To Climax By Vaginal Intercourse Alone.
Most partners don't know about this,instead of Vaginal Intercourse alone,they also need clitoral stimulation to reach the big O,only 28% of women reported reaching Orgasm,quite a far reach for that 75% of men who did.

4)Women Whose Vagina Have Direct Exposure To Semen Turn Out Less Prone To Depression.
Lol are you surprised? Raw sex yes! It means having sex without a condom semen has mood altering hormones which the female body absorbs through the Vagina.

5)It Is Very Possible To Reach Orgasm While Sleeping.
Despite the absence of physical stimulation,female genitals can experience blood flow through a sensual dream. It can increase as much during actual intercourse and the flow boost could cause Orgasm. Some women reach the big O while having erotic dreams.

6) Chimpanzees Have Spined Penises.
While it can ultumultim improve stimulation,it may also end up damaging female during coitus.

7)An Elephant Penis Can Be Heavy As 30kg During An Erection.
No long talk, wrongly touching an elephant penis may literally have you fucked around and knocked over.

8)When Sexually Frustrated,A Dolphin Is Not As Cute And Cuddly As It Seems.
 Intelligent beings that they are, dolphins are known to practise gang rape,murder on their own youngs,kill porpoises and even ho as far as sexually assaulting humans.

9)Sperm Can Last Up To 5 Years Inside A Female Snake.
Even when she mates with various males,the female can control which sperm she will use in fertilizing her eggs.

10) Lubricants are the top seller among all sex toys.
Contrary to what you might think,these liquids beat both vibrators and dildos to the record.

LOVE IS NOT FED UP

“Love doesn't make the world go round, Love is what makes the trip worth while”.

 Love is composed of a single body inhabiting two different souls. Like the saying “It takes two to tango”, so not replying his/her texts or ghosting on your partner isn't the best way to grow love.
   In our present day generation, many of us idealize love, we imagine a soft pleasurable feeling of emotions and care without actually doing the work. Some see it as as a lofty cure for all of life's problem. As we keep up with this,we underestimate the power of love and begin to swerve into lust and the end result is our relationships begins to suffer and pay the price of our negligence.
Believing we all need love is not enough to play the cards to win, we most likely forget the core values such as honesty, commitments, self care,trust towards the ones we genuinely love.

Someone once said;

 “If love solves everything,then why bother with the other stuff?yes all the unnecessary things”.

 We stay worried over alot we shouldn't bug about in our relationships due to alot of things eg, past occurrences, third parties, unwanted pressure, falling in love out of pity etc and it gradually takes our minds off the good things and we focus more on the end without beginning the trip.

Love is like alcohol, it intoxicates you at first on the sweet start and clears off when you wake in the morning.

BITTER SWEET TRUTHS ABOUT LOVE.
  No matter how much we eat on our fantasies and idealize our love stories. There are some hard truths I'd be talking about today.

1) Healing Doesn't Mean Forgetting.
   It's funny how couple's after a week of breakup come online to fight for peace and happiness or claim to heal and have forgotten about their pasts. That's a big lie and for you to heal, you've to admit pain and even after this phase, forgetting what hurt you might be difficult to brush under the rug.

2) Love Does Not Equal Compatibility.
  Falling in love is one of the best feeling in the world but that doesn't mean whoever you're in love with must feel that same way towards you or be good to you over the long term. It's possible to fall in love with someone who doesn't treat us well and then we start thinking we are not enough for him/her. When I think about the sad relationship stories we see around today, I go asking questions and it's always rhetorical.

NB: When in search of your missing piece, you must use your mind and not your heart and if you end up with your heart, you might just have a bad time.


3) Closure isn't real.
  You can mourn the loss of someone you lose. But you can never truly get over it because when you lose someone,a part of you is lost with them. Closure is a sad effort by you to regain that part of you that is lost. It can be hurtful, mean and regressive, your past will always be your past so move on and appreciate the past for whatever it taught you.

4) Don't ever beg for someone to love you.

5) Be careful who you give your heart to.

6) People will disappoint you again and again.

7) It is not uncruel to block your Ex.

8) There will be people in your life that you will never be able to forget or stop loving them.

9) Always know when to use the door.