LOVE IS NOT FED UP

“Love doesn't make the world go round, Love is what makes the trip worth while”.

 Love is composed of a single body inhabiting two different souls. Like the saying “It takes two to tango”, so not replying his/her texts or ghosting on your partner isn't the best way to grow love.
   In our present day generation, many of us idealize love, we imagine a soft pleasurable feeling of emotions and care without actually doing the work. Some see it as as a lofty cure for all of life's problem. As we keep up with this,we underestimate the power of love and begin to swerve into lust and the end result is our relationships begins to suffer and pay the price of our negligence.
Believing we all need love is not enough to play the cards to win, we most likely forget the core values such as honesty, commitments, self care,trust towards the ones we genuinely love.

Someone once said;

 “If love solves everything,then why bother with the other stuff?yes all the unnecessary things”.

 We stay worried over alot we shouldn't bug about in our relationships due to alot of things eg, past occurrences, third parties, unwanted pressure, falling in love out of pity etc and it gradually takes our minds off the good things and we focus more on the end without beginning the trip.

Love is like alcohol, it intoxicates you at first on the sweet start and clears off when you wake in the morning.

BITTER SWEET TRUTHS ABOUT LOVE.
  No matter how much we eat on our fantasies and idealize our love stories. There are some hard truths I'd be talking about today.

1) Healing Doesn't Mean Forgetting.
   It's funny how couple's after a week of breakup come online to fight for peace and happiness or claim to heal and have forgotten about their pasts. That's a big lie and for you to heal, you've to admit pain and even after this phase, forgetting what hurt you might be difficult to brush under the rug.

2) Love Does Not Equal Compatibility.
  Falling in love is one of the best feeling in the world but that doesn't mean whoever you're in love with must feel that same way towards you or be good to you over the long term. It's possible to fall in love with someone who doesn't treat us well and then we start thinking we are not enough for him/her. When I think about the sad relationship stories we see around today, I go asking questions and it's always rhetorical.

NB: When in search of your missing piece, you must use your mind and not your heart and if you end up with your heart, you might just have a bad time.


3) Closure isn't real.
  You can mourn the loss of someone you lose. But you can never truly get over it because when you lose someone,a part of you is lost with them. Closure is a sad effort by you to regain that part of you that is lost. It can be hurtful, mean and regressive, your past will always be your past so move on and appreciate the past for whatever it taught you.

4) Don't ever beg for someone to love you.

5) Be careful who you give your heart to.

6) People will disappoint you again and again.

7) It is not uncruel to block your Ex.

8) There will be people in your life that you will never be able to forget or stop loving them.

9) Always know when to use the door.